Walk away and end all contact now while you still have a bit of pride left. When you continue to reach out it makes you appear to be more powerless and in control and gives you less power. In the end of the day, i am always for being clear and open about how you really think and under the cost that your heart will be completely broken and pride destroyed. You also need to ensure that you can build on those feelings of respect and attraction, to the point where her desire for you becomes sudden and intense. It does not matter if the two of you broke up five days ago or five months ago. How would I know that you ask? And the reasons why it works is actually quite scientific, there's a lot of research and real reasons why it works.
As you focus more and more on what used to be, you lose touch with the world around you. One of the most well known ones is Radio Silence. I took the liberty of locating a text gnat for you so you can better understand what I am talking about here. You were together for some time. But even if they do reach out, all the work is still ahead of us, and we may arguably have made reconciliation harder on ourselves in the long term.
Suddenly you look a whole lot more calm and rational. Committing one or two of these blunders can be a correctable situation, but make too many mistakes and keep them going for too long and you'll have a much harder time getting your boyfriend to come back to you: You Haven't Demonstrated Acceptance of the Breakup Your boyfriend will be afraid of you until he's sure you've accepted the break up. Admittedly, the problem with all this is that it only makes sense objectively. The Male Perspective On Calling Too Much Sadly I have personal experience with a girl calling too much and I can tell you there is nothing more unattractive and annoying. If you don't respond then it shows that you are really not interested in talking with them or just acting cold.
I apologized cause I never meant to hurt him or betray him never. Learn to rely on yourself and not your ex. Under no circumstances, you should ever do it. It enhances on the No Contact Rule, explaining it with real life examples. And it may not feel natural because you really love your ex, so you want to express your love. Worst mistake of my life. If so, have you begun to make progress towards your big goals and ambitions in life, or are you still hoping to just spend time with her and not worry about your purpose in life? Deprived of an open and honest flow of communication, they will be forced to jump to conclusions regarding their romantic future, without the benefit of your feedback.
So, the other big mistake that women make that can cause their ex boyfriend to want to ignore them is spamming his phone with calls. Men are no different than women in this way: they'd much rather have a girl who's strong and confident than one who's weak, needy, or insecure. If there is nothing out there in your field, how about looking into getting certification in another field so you can start fresh somewhere else doing something completely new. This will make him feel like none of the mean things he's been doing are having any effect on you. This accomplishes a number of things.
The real question though is how he contacts you. There is a part of the narcissist that knows the truth of the real self, with its attendant shame and rejection, which can never, ever be encountered. He began calling you and texting you at all hours, asking what you were doing and who you were with. I am a mood person by nature. Do not start anything as silly as a revenge diet.
You can't remain friends with your ex because that will only hold you back from finding your true, inner power. I mean come on, your ex is going to eventually contact you. Are you ready to rebuild the chemistry? You have relied on him so much these past two years that you have forgotten how to do certain things on your own. Tell your partner, that you accept your mistake. And if he dumped you, why would you want anything to do with him again? End the friendship altogether by removing him from your social media accounts. If he was over it, why would he feel the need to remind the world, he was? She wants him to know how to be a man on his own, not with her guidance. The first conversation was very positive.
And just like that he told me we shouldnt talk for a while. All that abruptly stopped 3 days ago when he heard about me meeting a male friend… not even a date. Now when he see me he just stares and watch me walk down the street. Here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery I am sad to say that I see a lot of this ex boyfriends ignoring their ex girlfriends thus it would be an understatement to say that I am experienced at diving in to the male mind and dissecting it. There are going to be a few jealousy issues as soon as one of you starts dating again or gets into a new, serious relationship. So you reach out to him and begin dumping all this crap on him as though the two of you are still together. If I am not in the mood to go out and see people one day then I will not do it.